Thanks both of you for the responses. That is why I'm ANGRY. The oncologist he has had this entire 15 months knows my Dad very well and is SO great with him...but when he's gone for vacations, hospital rounds, sick he sees a different one and they know nothing about him. He had a different one today and this oncologist came in and after seeing my Dad had lost 5 lbs in two weeks (after having lost 2 the week before that) she increased his Avastin (which I don't feel is her place to be honest..he's there every week so she could have taken the week to suggest it to his oncologist like they normally do). To make it worse she didn't tell my parents it was being increased...the nurse told us. The blood work was not even back when Dad saw the oncologist so she didn't know his protein was up...but shouldn't they CARE to see the bloodwork? Plus, when he has dropped weight and shown increased fatigue shouldn't he get the same FULL work up of labs that he always gets rather than picking NOW to start ordering a minimum of tests? Here's the last kicker of the visit. My Dad has been on Megace for a couple of weeks. My Mom mentioned prednisone to the oncologist today and she told my Mom she would stick with the Megace and rule that out first. THEN when he's just starting his treatment a nurse walks in and gives the written prescriptions to them. One of them....PREDNISONE! I looked at it and said to the nurse...he is already on Megace and she wanted him to continue and now what should he do because he can't take them both?! She got mad at me (I'm used to it because they look at me and assume I'm stupid because I'm young:) and said...well discontinue the Megace. Seriously...let it be a lesson to all new cancer patients and caregivers...WATCH the doctors and nurses because unfortunately they are not perfect. They are human and they aren't expected to do everythign right but unfortunately their mistakes can be MAJOR mistakes!