Hi,
Thank you all for the responses. I appreciate you all have a lot more experience than I do. It is six week since we had first came to be aware that the lesion could be cancer, despite it having been present for three years. and a further two weeks since surgery.
Really, I haven't got a strategy in place for dealing with it. My instinct tells me on one hand to let doctors do their job, but clearly in the face of ambiguity, education is going to be the only real option.
I take a lot of heart, one view expressed is the least threatening biopsy is most relevant, and followed by other views, that confirm what the surgeon said, which is seeing a radio oncologist is procedural and largely to confirm the view that cancerous cells do not seem to be present, and to have an examination before deciding if or any further treatment is required.I will also heed the advice to be vigilant.
I feel at a loss, this is a very deep and painful subject, six weeks ago was my first whiff and you all seem to know lots of stuff, and I have never had any personal experience. Panic would not be the right word, but I am deeply afraid.
Thank you all for reassuring me not to fear the worst just yet. That is the best thing I was hoping for. Going forward I will endeavour to learn, regardless of the outcome and I will seek further medical opinions.
I am very sorry for the pain that this disease must have caused.