Hi Kenny,
I am about one year post reversal surgery and have more good days than bad, but still experience some bowel problems once or twice a month. I never have had loose stools, and must take a combo of Amitiza twice a day, Miralax every night, and about 18 to 25 gms fiber daily. I try to get it from vegetables, beans, and whole grains. If I don't do this every day, I have a lot of trouble going to the bathroom, sometimes sort of painful and "clustering" as it is referred to by some. Even with all the added "help", at best the stool is just softer, not at all loose. Since I found success with the above mentioned items, I haven't tried probiotics yet. The surgeon gave me some samples, but I'm sort of afraid to mess with a system that is working since I had such trouble for the first few months. I do eat yogurt, but from what I've read, you don't get a big enough dose of the good bacteria from that.
I have concluded that the doctors don't know how each patient's system is going to recover, so they just say very little. I too am amazed at the doctors' unwillingness to be more open. Everything seems to be trial and error with each patient. If one thing doesn't work, try another. It's good to hear your success story.
Sue