Sunwolf,
My husband had his Whipple April 29, 2009. No complications. He had adenocarcinoma of the head of the pancreas, no spread except for one nearby lymph node. It had clear margins and was 1/3 cm. His doctors recommended adjuvant therapy to prevent a recurrence. He had three treatments of Gemzar (chemo) once a week for 3 weeks, off a week, then he had 5 weeks of 5-FU, oxaliplatin, and radiation all at the same time. He was feeling really well until the last regiment of chemo/radiation. Constant diarrhea caused him to lose another 15 pounds the last two weeks (total of 50). His chemo stopped Tuesday but he still has diarrhea. We're hoping it stops soon. No medication helps, only diet modification.
Anyway, I am glad you found this site for help and information. I am usually on the Johns Hopkins pancreatic cancer discussion board. That is a very active board with lots of helpful information and nice people. Just google it and you should find it. You will find lots of Whipple survivors and others who have been helped with various regimes of chemo in all stages of cancer.
Nancy