I'm sure everyone has different reactions to Tarceva. My side effects were awful. I took one pill a day from the first of October until December last year. I ended up with rash all over my body. Mainly face, neck and back. It itched like crazy. I had very bad diahrea plus the rash on my rear end and was completely miserable. I could not eat. Nothing tasted good.
I was taking this along with gemzar and after taking those for about 2 months I had lost about 40 pounds. Plus when I had a scan it showed that nothing was working and my mets had grown.
My oncologist switched me to 5 FU and leukovarin in 1/09. I gradually got much better, the rash cleared up, the diahrea cleared up and my appetite returned. I've gained those 40 poinds back and the scans have shown a decrease in some of the mets and some stablized.
Those side effects are what I was told would happen. I opted to take the risk anyway. It was a real bad choice for me.
Hope this helps. By the way, I was told that Tarceva on average will only increase longevity something like 15 days over Gemzar alone. BUT, it may work better for other people.