Congratulations to your daughter on her 10 yr survival!! That's wonderful. I'm sorry to read that her father has been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. That is a difficult disease to treat and very challenging.
While your daughter has had a successful remission following HDC/SCR (high dose chemo/stem cell rescue) this is a very dangerous and intense form of treatment. There is little, if any, clinical trial evidence to show that this is the most effective treatment for inflammatory breast cancer. Those who received the treatment and have survived feel it "saved them" while the voices of those who did not survive are quiet. The debate continues.
Fortunately, with the advent of more chemo options and more physicians knowing to treat this disease aggressively, more of us are becoming long-term survivors.
I was diagnosed in 1994 when this disease was a death sentence and given a poor prognosis, even at stage IIIB. I was treated aggressively with relatively high doses of standard chemo and have been one of the fortunate ones to obtain a good outcome in spite of residual disease in the breast and lymph nodes. I remain NED (no evidence of disease)
More research is desperately needed to understand the complexities of this disease and improve diagnosis, treatment, and survival. I am a part of the Inflammatory Breast Cancer Research Foundation a non-profit dedicated to this very mission. For more info visit: www.ibcresearch.org
Again, congratulations to your daughter. As you indicated once we have cancer we are at greater risk for a 2nd cancer....hopefully our first experience makes us more aware of our bodies so changes can be dealt with quickly and effectively.