Thanks to all for your responses; we live in New Jersey. We still have not heard back from Mt. Sinai if he's a candidate, although they did say to give it 30 days. We had also gone to see a surgeon about RFA and he was supposed to get back to us - two days ago - and we have not heard back from him. We had an appointment this past Tuesday with his medical oncologist at Sloan Kettering in Basking Ridge and she told him that she doesn't take it personal that he has looked at other options. When we saw her the last time, she offered maintenance chemo or a clinical trial using an antibody, neither of which we were thrilled with. She told him that he has 4-6 small tumors in his liver, and that she'd still like to treat him with a maintenance chemo, she wanted to give it some more thought and research as to what kind of chemo she would use. Also said that possibly down the line she would consider RFA. We've always trusted her, it's just that we lost a bit of confidence the last time that we saw her, as she was not her usual self, she was flustered.
What has been God awful, is that the other two doctors we saw, i.e., the second opinion oncologist, and the surgeon that we saw the other day, don't dot their i's or cross their t's. It's appalling - the oncologist is nice enough, but his staff is the pits. They've misplaced records, lost cds that were brought over to them, and the communication is like "whose on first?" And before we saw the surgeon the other day, we brought everything over to him, so that he could look at it before we even got there, so that we wouldn't be wasting his time or ours. When we met with him, we found out that he was unable to open the cds, because his software was not compatible. He was going to bring the CDs to the hospital on Tuesday to look at them, and as I mentioned, he said he'd be back to us no later than Wednesday. I know that we're all busy, we all multitask, but this is no laughing matter - we're talking about life and death and that they can be so lackadaisical and unresponsive, aggravates me to no end. Or if I here another nurse or receptionist call me "honey" I'm going to go off the deep end.
Thanks to all for listening to me vent . . . this is taking it's toll on me. On a happier note, my boss gave us tickets to see the Bruce Springstein concert at Giants Stadium tonight.
God bless each and every one of you, and I continue to keep you in my prayers.
Georgette