Partners even more likely than survivors to experience fear and worry over long term, study finds
by rhondak on Mon Oct 19, 2009 12:00 AM
by onemorehour on Mon Oct 19, 2009 12:00 AM
by heart_and_soul on Mon Oct 19, 2009 12:00 AM
Radiation. It giveth and it taketh away. Short term memory problems are very common, especially with left side tumors and whole-head radiation. Ach. Visit the American Brain Tumor Assoc. website FMI/ radiation long term side effects: http://www.abta.org/index.cfm?contentid=105
We find that writing things down makes a world of difference. SEEING is somehow a way to store an image of information, vs. HEARING which doesn't store the information anywhere that I can tell... around here! (Andy was a visual learner in the first place. Now he's 100% visual.)
E.G. Giving a chart for meds which Andy can check off and 'own' is much more empowering and a place of self-control than handing him the pills and the water all the time, or asking him if he's taken them.
mother of Andy 27 dx gbm/pnet 1/09
by kozyyak on Tue Oct 20, 2009 12:00 AM
Memory loss is very frustrating. Martin has good days and bad days. He gets frustrated also. It makes it easier for him if we just laugh about it. Life is what it is. It is heart breaking but also exciting that we will never have 2 days the same.
I send U prayers,
Mom to Martin 5; DX 09/08
by Lorre_G on Tue Oct 20, 2009 12:00 AM
by Sherylrjr on Tue Oct 20, 2009 12:00 AM
I know first hand what you and your husband are going through. My son 34 dx Mar 08 with grade 3 AA. His short term memory is diminishing. He also gets very frustrated because he looses his train of thought while talking. He is very angry at this point in time. I understand about the patience. My daughter-in-law is a gem. It is very trying for her and at times unbearable because of this tantrums. The NO say's short term memory never regains completely. My son's tumor was in the right paretial lobe. Location of the tumor plays into cognitive issues.
I know this journey is difficult for you, your husband and family. There is support out there for caregivers as well. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST!.I know this sounds hard to do, but the caregiver gets the brunt of everything.
May God give you strenght! You are in my prayers.
Son 34 dx grade 3 (AA)
by amberada7 on Wed Oct 21, 2009 12:00 AM
My tumors (astrocytomas) were/are located in my right temporal lobe. I had surgery 11 years ago, and the Gamma Knife almost 7 years ago. I still deal with short term memory problems and it isn't getting any better. My NO recently recommended cognition testing and depending on the results, Ritalin may be an option to help with my memory problems. I know how it feels, I wish you the best of luck!!
by michelso on Tue Jan 08, 2013 03:59 AM
Not certain if you're still here over three years later, just curious as to how your husband has progressed.
My wife had a brain sugery almost 5 months ago and is suffering short-term memory loss. Doing some cognitive therapies at the moment with some improvement, but largely hit and miss. I'm axious for the final assesment as to what to expect, we're just entering early retirement as a result.
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