I don't like the fact the private replies are now public. Some things are more difficult to deal with publicly. I have used this forum many times but now find myself staying away more and more. My spouse would be mortified to see some of the private posts I made concerning problems we were dealing with, now available for all to see.
I needed help with getting through some issues when things were very bad. But I had always assumed the private ones would stay that way. I realize everything changes but sometimes not for the better.
It will more difficult for me to ask for help on some issues, out of respect for my spouse's privacy and dignity.