Hi Sue,
my fiance has been on Torisel for 10 months, his only side was a very bad rash, nausa, and he did feel miserable at first, but that went away after a few months, along with rash calming down.... Have you discuss this with your oncologist ?? Torisel works very well on my fiance, it has stablized his lung and rib mets and he actually still working to keep him busy... He was d/x in Aug 08 and nephrectomy 1 yr the 17th of Nov, everything was taken from his left side, all comsume witth met's....
I know this is not simular to your experience, but i can tell with time things will get better, it's a waiting game with every drug, that they use for kidney cancer, Torisel is the only drug that doesn't have long lasting side effects, the body has to get used to it and also every drug out there works differently with with others bodies...
I didn't notice the date you put you problem in, but i hope this can releive some stress for you and your husband, please write back to let me know how you are doing...
Good luck,
Rebba