Dear Cindy,
Yes, one day at a time. COMFORT is key but also having a plan. As soon as you have a plan, you feel better. And regarding the awful prognosis, you know as a nurse that the average is fairly meaningless for any one person. Half the people live longer and some of that group goes long! Tell your sister she can go long! The tail of the curve, so to speak, has no end. There are GBM survivors! Check out www.yasg.com .
There are some trials for people who are newly diagnosed. Look at www.clinicaltrials.gov . It's a government listing of all trials. You enter in your specifics to narrow it way down. One thing you'll hear again and again on this forum is to get a good team of doctors. This almost always means a major brain tumor center or teaching university hospital. The ones you'll hear about the most are Duke, MD ANderson, UCSF, Cleveland Clinic, Cedars-Mt Sinai, Harvard-Dana Farber, etc. If you can't or don't live near one, then you can visit for a consult. We did that in the 4 week 'rest' after the first 6 weeks of Temodar and radiation therapy. It's peace of mind... and any peace of mind is precious, as you can imagine.
Someone here knows a little something about almost any question. So sorry about your sister. I know you all will surround her with love. It's a terrible shock... one I haven't really recovered from. All I know is that love helps a lot.
Sarah
mother of Andy 27 dx gbm/pnet Jan. 09
(pnet is another kind of brain tumor... he got 'em both. yuck)