shes jus died

i posted a thread asking about the intravenous vit c. all things were in vain, my sister in law has passed away this evening, leaving behind 4 young children.

4 years of being prodded at, poked, chemo, radiiation, hospital appointments, hospital stays, for a good woman.

theres no justice in the world. 43 years old. why???

I am so sorry for your loss.

Thinking of you and your family in this difficult time.

May your sister in law shine upon you amongst the brightest stars.

Sending much love to you.

she died at a hospice. to think stupid drs told us  aweek ago she needs to be more independant and do things for herself! she had breast cancer metasised all over her body. her children are devastated. when adults cannot understand, how can children?

On Oct 31, 2009 9:42 PM pleasehelpus wrote:

i posted a thread asking about the intravenous vit c. all things were in vain, my sister in law has passed away this evening, leaving behind 4 young children.

4 years of being prodded at, poked, chemo, radiiation, hospital appointments, hospital stays, for a good woman.

theres no justice in the world. 43 years old. why???

 I know just how you feel.  I lost my mother to liver cancer six years ago and since then have been diagnosed with two primary cancers myself.  Only those who have had to deal with this disease and who have lost those to it can relate to what you have to endure.  The physical pain, the emotional pain no one can understand it unless you've been there.  It doesn't seem fair does it?   Why are only some of us stricken with this when the rest of the world seems to go about living their lives unaffected? 

thankyou for your post. i thin its worse when you've been through it before. my sis in laws mother battled bowel cancer for 6 years and was a fighter. she dies 4 years ago. my sis in law was devasted by the loss and 2 months later was diagnosed with breast cancer. she tried to fight it very much at the beginning, but the last 6 months, as good as gave up - she had become too weak. her battle lasted 4 years. 4 years of conflicting info from the so called specialists. i have seen what drs are really like through my profession and they are not as expert as they lie to claim. it is always in the majority lined to money for them.

10 years now in total that cancer has affected our lives. the family are not handling it at all. they are still at the hospice sitting with her.

we are all good people who do anything for anybody. dont understand why this is what is given to us.

Iam so sorry for your loss. Sometimes the treatment makes people feel worse than the sickness but with 4 young kids I can understand at least trying. She is resting and at peace now. I only hope my dad can have peace for his final days...

On Nov 01, 2009 1:13 AM pleasehelpus wrote:

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10 years now in total that cancer has affected our lives. the family are not handling it at all. they are still at the hospice sitting with her.

we are all good people who do anything for anybody. dont understand why this is what is given to us.

I understand completely.  My Mom was diagnosed in Feb. 03 with Liver cancer and passed away in June 03.   She tried to fight it but it was already too advanced and I agree with you about doctors.  Some are good, others are complete idiots and should not be in practice but when it comes to cancer, I think ALL of them need to be more compassionate and have a better bedside manner.  The initial diagnosis cuts through you like a knife and your mind hasn't wrapped around the first thing out of the doctors mouth when they're already on the fifth or sixth sentence.  I was diagnosed with breast cancer 06 and thyroid cancer 09.  I really hate this disease.  It is so unfair and why does it target some and not others?   

It may help to know that your sister in law is now free of any pain and how happy she is to be reunited with her Mom and others that she has loved and missed and passed before her.  May God bless you. 

I'm so sorry that happened. Right now I'm 21 dealing with an innoperable brain tumor myself so age definitely doesn't care much for cancer or... any health problems. I know you want a rational explanation for why this could happen, but there is none. These things just happen to random people and we are forced to accept thats the only way.

I am truly sorry for your loss, I will pray for you <3

thanyou for your message and condolonses. i will also pray for you.

There's not much to say other than through your words and the pain they reveal, we know you and through you, your loved one. None of us know "why," but we're there for you nonetheless. Some day you'll find your peace.

Do all you can for those kids! They need you.