Marinabob:
I had the same diagnosis on the lesion they removed from my rectum. They said I could chose to have chemo and radiation or more surgery (a low anterior resection). I can't decide which would be better. I don't like either option, but I am a female and don't have to worry about harming my prostate.
Anyway, on your question, I went online and got booklets from the American Cancer Society for free that listed the questions you should ask the doctor. Some were very helpful, others I already knew the answers to. My case manager for my health insurance sent me one from the National Cancer Institute also called "Radiation Therapy and You: A Guide To Self-help During Cancer Treatment" that was also helpful. It doesn't list the questions to ask the doctor, but it has lots of answers.
The list of questions in the other book include:
Why do I need chemotherapy/radiation therapy?
What are the benefits? What are the risks?
Are there other ways to treat my cancer? What is the standard care for my type of cancer? How many cycles of chemotherapy will I get? How long is each treatment? How long between treatments? What types of chemotherapy will I get/ How will these drugs be given? Where do I go for this treatment? How long does each treatment last? What side effects can I expect right away? What side effects can I expect later? How serious are these side effects? How long will these side effects last? Whill all the side effects go away when treatment is over? What can I do to manage or ease these side effects? What can my doctor or nurse do to manage or ease these side effects? When should I call my doctor or nurse about these side effects?
These questions came out of a chemotherapy booklet, so they are slanted that way.
I don't know if these are helpful to you, but good luck on your oddessey.
tigger11