Tony - My wife has different sarcoma: synovial. Regardless, adult sarcomas are quite rare. The best thing that I've done is to spend countless hours researching the disease, then using what I know to speak to (and at times, demand of) her doctors. First we had a general oncologist who didn't seem to know what he was talking about. Next, our primary care physician had the good sense to refer us to a hospital that has a sarcoma team. Being out of network, it cost us over $25,000 inside of four months (the cost of your wife's care is another thing, but from my perspective, I'd rather have a bankruptcy on my record so long as my wife is by my side). After surgery and radiation the radiologist said to come back in six months. From my research I knew that she needed to be scaned again in three months. I made phone calls, sent faxes, and made appointments to speak with several of her doctors. Initially, they passed the buck, but I knew what I was talking about and would not let up. I let my wife set the agenda with regards to talking about her illness at home, but outside the home, I am aggressively advocating for her. She is, after all, the love of my life. You and your wife have my best wishes.