Thanks for the input. I will certainly be persistant this woman is like a mother to me and she is 75. I'm not ready to throw in towel on her and just want to make sure doctors aren't either. Her entire wound from surgery had to be opened and we pack it every day. She also had an infection in blood before surgery, maybe these are the reasons they want to wait for some kind of treatment, don't know but I will find out.
She had naseau and jaudice really bad before surgery and has lost 20lbs since Thanksgiving.
Since we have gotten her home she has been eating great and looks less yellow since surgery but energy hasn't returned. I guess this could be because there are still some cancer left.
Thanks for reading and listening to me.