Hi Joe,
First of all let me say how sorry I am to hear about the rough time you have had and are still having with this awful cancer and it's treatment. Sometimes it's hard to say if the treatment is worse than the cancer, though like you what I have read is not always promising, but you and Alan are examples that it can be beat.
It was one year ago this week that Alan started his treatment. The last PET scan he had in September was clean-one small lymph node lit up in his jaw, but the doctors think it wass probably due to a sinus infection, not the SNUC. He will be having another PET scan March 18th- it will be just less than a year after his treatment ended, so the results will be pretty significant, though Alan says he will feel better when he has been clean for 5 years.
He is also still having trouble with his right eye since the radiation. We were told best case scenario would be a cataract, worse case he could lose the eye. Neither has happened, but he has had a lot of trouble with irritation from the eyelashes growing in all directions and constantly scratching and irritating it. He recently had all the lower lashes "frozen off" so they won't keep irritating the eye.
It has taken a long time to recover from the treatment-he still has days he gets very fatigued, but is out snowblowing right now-we live in Rockford IL and just got 3-4" of snow overnight. He is also back to work 4 hours a day.
I am curious- have the doctors given any indication of what may have caused this cancer for you? It is so rare- only the surgeon we saw in Madison has ever delt with this and he only sees 1 or 2 cases a year. Alan worked in a factory- was in tool and die and was exposed to a lot of carbide and grinding dust, but hadn't worked there for nearly 6 years when he was diagnosed. He has had a lot of sinus problems and infections over the years. He has also run into quite a few former co-workers who have been diagnosed with some unusuals cancers as well. Makes you wonder sometimes.
Best of luck to you Joe on this upcoming surgery and your continued recovery. We will be praying for you and please keep us posted on how you are doing. I have found this message board to be very helpful and Alan has too. Especially when you are dealing with something this rare.
Kathy