My 28 year old husband was diagnosed on August 1 with stage 3/3 bladder cancer. He underwent 4 rounds of chemotherapy. He received 2 different drugs - cisplatin & gemsar. He received treatment once a week for 3 weeks then had a week off - that counted as 1 round. On January 6 he had his bladder removed and received a neobladder. My husband needed the chemo because the tumor was very large. The Doctor felt that if he received chemo, it may shrink the tumor, making the surgery a little "cleaner." The chemo worked well shrinking the tumor and the surgeons were able to spare his nerves, which are necessary for sexual function. Because my husband is so young, he wanted to have the most normal quality of life possible, post op.
The chemo was the most difficult part of this ugly disease. He was very weak and sick while undergoing the chemo. He lost a lot of weight. Chemotherapy was much more difficult than the recovery from the surgery.
My husband is almost 6 weeks post op and ready to go back to work. He is 100% cancer free now. While he was undergoing the Chemo, I absolutely hated it & thought it was the worst thing in the world. I now realize that it may have saved his life.
That is our experience. I am nt sure if that is what you are looking for or not, as it sounds like you want to stop chemo. If you have any questions, let me know.
Good luck. Stephanie