Hi Donna
I have read your message and see that you have been dealing with small cell cervical cancer for some time now. Was yours just called small cell cervical cancer or did it go by another name?
I am curious because I recently lost my 29 year old daughter to something similar. It was called small cell neuroendocrine carcinoma of the cervix that started with a tumor in her cervix. At first they thought she had first stage cervical cancer which was bad enough but things got worse as we soon found out.
My daughter was diagnosed a month after she was married. Her and her fiancee had lived together and had a little boy before they were married. In May of 2003 they were married in July of 2003 she was diagnosed.
They set her up for a radical hysterectomy which of course meant that she could no longer have any more of her own children. This was heart breaking but they could have children other ways as long as she was ok. Well they went in to do the hysterectomy and found something that was more than they expected. It had already metastisized to her lymph nodes and it was this rare form of cancer. They closed her up did not perform the surgery and gave us the options none of which sounded hopeful.
They told me that my youngest daughter had six months if she did nothing possibly 1-2 years with treatment, chemo and or radiation. I was devastated to think that my baby girl was on borrowed time. I started to do research and tried to find something or someone that knew anything about this type of cancer. There was nothing we looked everywhere called everyone but there was no information. Even the doctors told us there was very little about this type of cancer. She decided to fight and went for the treatments she had numerous cycles of cisplatnum & eptopiside to start with several times a week. She also had external & internal radiation treatments which eventually destroyed her bowel tract & she had to have a colostomy in July 2004. After that she had more chemo of all different varities & combinations. She had to endure many blood transfusions & several admissions until they told her on 12/19/04 that her options were over & sent her home to be with her family which was to be her last Xmas.
We are from New Jersey and my daughter had her treatments at Cooper Hospital in Camden NJ & also Fox Chase in Philadelphia,Pa. Even though she was being taken care by some of the finest doctors in oncology it made no difference her chances were slim if at all.
My daughter kept a smile on her face knowing the whole time in her heart that it was going to claim her & take her away from the family that she loved. She would never admit it but you knew that she was aware that she would not see her son grow up. He was 3 when she left him. To watch her suffer and go through that was the hardest thing I have had to endure knowing that there was nothing I could do but just be there.
After a little over 1 1/2 years it claimed her on the 31st. of Jan 2005. They gave her 1-2 years & she was gone in less than two years.
I see now that there are other people that unfortunately have experienced a similar form of cancer.
Thank god it is finally being talked about which in turn is helping others not feel so isolated as we were. No one knew anything there was no special area to get information. When I would read about cervical cancer it would give you the prognosis,treatment etc, which gave me some hope. Then at the end of the information it stated if the type of cancer was small cell neuorenodcrine none of the above information applied. Hope was smashed we had nothing once more. Hopefully now with communication more will be found out about small cell cancer of the cervix & less woman will have to leave their loved ones behind.
My prayers are with all of you that have or have had this terrible disease touch you or any of your loved ones personally.
My daughter never gave up even with her last breath she fought. Make every day count,make every day special for yourselves and the ones you love.
My baby girl is gone and my heart is broken.If just one woman is saved because this form of cancer is finally being talked about & recognized that will give me hope that no other mother will be left with only her memories.
Keep Smiling!
Vicky