Hello Naomi.
Sit down and take a breath...I am assuming you are speaking about Stanford Medical Center in Northern California.
My wife was treated at UCSF Medical Center in San Francisco. They are both very, very good Medical Facilities.
They both handle Bile Duct Cancers.
Naomi...You mom is in an excellent medical facility.
Okay...surgery in not an option...I didn't think so. I am assuming they have a very good reason not to do surgery. There are many reason surgery is not an option. It may be the location of the tumor, this is the main reasons.
Well, Are they suggesting 3D-Conformal pin pointed Radiation with 5 to 7 treatments of Cyberknife at the end of the pinpointed radiation treatments.
My wife Karen was doing oral chemo and the radiation at the same time. But remember Karen had surgery first. She also had IV chemo later the same one you mentioned.
Naomi..Also be aware these treatment are NOT a cure. They will prolong life...but sometimes the quality of life is not the greatest.
Remenber everyone is different...If the doctors at Stanford want to move to radiation and chemo...they are hoping that is an asnwer to prolong life.
Do you know how Cyberknife Radiosurgery operates. Do you know what it does to the tumor.
My personal opinion...if standard surgery is not an option...go with Cyberknife... and then possibly chemo after the radiation treatments.
This is not an easy situation. This cancer is horrible. The last six month of Karen life was awful...the last three months were beyond understanding and horrible.
There are many on this chat website that hate me for telling others the truth...But I believe if you know what's next you will be able to handle the shock that awaits you and your family. I personally do not care what my critics say about me or to me. They are the ones sitting in the dark.
I lived it for over 7 long, long years. My wife and I battled it together. In those 7 plus years we became like siamese twins.
In closing...Maomi, remember Stanford is one of the best. Listen to your doctors and ask questions...there is never a stupid question. I know some doctors have an ego issue...to bad for them...sit their butt down and and tell them to answer your questions. Also remember, they may not have an answer...if that's the case make them say that. Do not be worried about hurting their ego.
I hope some this helped. If you need more specifics, please just ask me. I don't have all the answers. But I lived it 24/7 for over 7 years. I'm just a care-giver...I am not a doctor. But remember a good care-giver may be more helpful to your love one than the doctors.
Take Care...I wish all the best for you your mom and your entire family.
Leonard from Alamo California