This is such a rare cancer that I don't use the survival statistics as a reference, I use HOW DO I FEEL and what the docs say about how I am doing. I am now 4 months post op, having had whipple surgery for an ampullary mass at age 77. I was other wise health prior to this and this was my first hospital stay. I started chemo (Xeloda/pills) and radiation 8 weeks post op. The Xeloda did cause a build up toxic effect so had to stop 2 weeks and restart at a lower dose. I did complete the full 6 weeks of treatment with radiation and the interrupted oral chemo and 3 weeks since last treatment and I am feeling VERY GOOD. I had one lymph node positive, and the mass in the ampulla of vater was also positive. Although the margins taken at time of surgery were negative, so the cancer cells were in the interior of the mass and lymph node. I have been told by all of my treating physicians this is the toughest surgery of all. And They all say I am doing best of any whipple patient they've seen.
Keep a VERY close eye on your dad for signs of infection, any swelling or warmness at sites of IV's and anything else that doesn't look quite right. I was very fortunate to have a wonderful caring & careful staff for my care at Presbyterian Hopsital in Charlotte and made it through with no set-backs. I was fortunate that my wife was able to stay with me 24/7 during my 13 day hospital stay, it made life more comfortable to have her there for asisistance with emergency bathroom trips, knowing she was there made the wait on the nurses less stressful. If someone can stay with your dad, I would highly recommend. And he will no doubt need Depends undergarments to make the diahrrea less stressful. the hospital size of one fits all with velcro creeps down to the knees when walking, best to get the depends with elastic / pull ups and have them on hand for when he starts eating and drinking and also when the feeding tube is put it he will also need them. I went through 10 to 15 a day at times, I know that sounds like alot but the system goes through a shock when it is trying to gear back up to accept the tube feeding, liquids by mouth, etc.
I did have to come home with a feeding tube due to delayed gastric emptying which is very common. My best advice is NO food for dad from outside the hospital. Eat only what he is given and be certain he gets the right tray, pay attention to whether he is on clear liquids or full liquids. The prescribed diet is critical to starting the digestion back up since it is now sleeping from surgery. Walking is excellent for him, the more he walks the better his recovery will be.
And be prepared for an applaude when he passes gas, the hospital staff does celebrate passing GAS for the whipple patients.
I was able to return to work 7 weeks after surgery, worked through the treatment cycle and still working my usual 4 hour a day part time work week, nothing strenous, I design textile machinery. I find keeping the mind active is good therapy for recovery .
you will find a wealth of caring people at this site and find comfort in the sharing of information. Feel free to contact me at my personal email: topnotchplus@yahoo.com
my very best to you and your family!
regards, Ray