Hi George,
Really sorry that you are where you are. I can relate. The whole process is frightening and demoralizing and yet with luck & perseverance most of us can survive and learn to live with a "new normal."
I'm over 5 yrs out of stage 4 SCC - tonsil & lymph glands. Peg (stomach tube for one week less that 3 years.) Today eating life is liquid or very thinned puree followed by water. A swallow specialist taught me how to hold my breath & then swallow. Only small sips allowed or the whole magilla falls out of my nose. Also, those pesky twice-a-day radiation sessions left a small section of access to lungs burned open, so aspirating fluid happens on a regular basis, but I can cough it out.
Went to a place in NYC 5 yrs ago. They did not sell products but did sell nutritional info (with referenced research sites) mostly to HIV and/or AIDS patients. I was and fortunately am not either of those. The NYC presented me with a goal to build my immune system without encouraging the growth of cancer cells.
After conferring with them immediatly threw out one of the canned pharm. alleged nutritional slop which had mostly sugar followed by chemicals. When I asked the cancer nutritionist about taking 2 types of canned crap with so much sugar she replied that it was "vital to keep the coloric numbers up." Several top cancer hospitals give the no-no to process/refined sugars during treatment because cancer cells supposedly thrive on them. The place where I was treated is highly respected & I'm very grateful to them for being here but their nutritionists felt that there is not enough research to have patients lesson their sugar content, when it can add the needed calories (while we cancer patients are barfing all over town & not getting any REAL food in our bodies.
I used a strong blender (started with a regular one and within 2 years got a VitaMix as a gift.) Peeled apples, added sardines, chicken broth, whey isolate protein powder, greek yoghurt and liquids from juicing veggies. After treatment I added Green Vibrance, Perfect food and a liquid multi-vitamin. Occassionally Gator Aid if the electrolytes (salt) count was down. i thinned it out with Pom, prune, grape, Alovera or Acai juice and used the blunt end of wooden grilling sticks to roto-till out any lumps. Utilized pump only occasionally as it caused so much gas. I didn't use every single thing every time but over a period of a week I would have. Also used soda water several times a week because the bubbles helped keep the tube clean.
Doctors never gave the blessing for my system, nor did they say NOT to do it. I was told by the NYC folks that I would start feeling stronger within 6 - 8 weeks. I felt much better in 3 and never used any cans of crap again. The Docs did invite me to speak at a very large Head & Neck conference held in Boston a few months into my own regime. 15 Physicians & me. I brought my blender filled with an ugly green/gray stinky liquid and suggested that they start thinking outside the box. They need to get innovative for us and perhaps someday for one of their own.
George, I don't know if any of this helped you. I hope so. I am not prescribing for you because I am not a nutritionist or a medical professional. I, like so many of us on Cancer Compass, am just a cancer patient who wanted to live and feel better. So far, both those things are happening. This cancer business is no head cold. We each endure the unendurable. It does seem to get more manageable talking with others who are, or have, shared a similar experience.
Hang in George.
Warmest regards from New England.
bostongirl