Hi Tracie...l was diagnosed in October 2008. Had a nephrectomy and thoracotomy for the mets in my lung. After that I developed 9 new nodes in both my lungs within 3 months. Sutent failed, but the Torisel got rid of 5 of them! Unfortunately it stopped working so moved on to Afinitor. Not sure how many you have, how big or where they are but wanted to share what my oncologist just told me. Depending of course upon your medical history, each patient reacts differently to their treatments and some tumors are slow growing while others are fast growing. Some treatments work for some patients and some don't. He has had patients that have lived 20 years with their tumors with no treatments. In between the Torisel and the Afinitor I was off treatment for 4 months while my body did some healing and although the tumors did grow, they grew minimally and life goes on. So don't give up hope...the hardest part is not being your cancer. Cancer is a really scary word but when you learn to think of it as a chronic condition that you are living with, it's alot less scary. If you lost your job you should be looking into COBRA which extends health benefits. I don't know where you live but I believe it exists throughout all the US and is a government program. You can find information on it on the internet and you have 60 days to apply for it through your old company. It becomes retroactive to when you lost your job. Aside from that there are organizations besides the drug companies that will also help pay the cost of the meds. All this information is available online. I know with cancer it can be overwhelming to be doing this research and if it is, hopefully there is someone close to you who can help you do this. You'd be amazed at how many organizations are out there to offer you help.
The other thing is that all these cancer fighting drugs still muck up your immune system (things like hair thinning, etc.) so another good thing to do would be to work on building up your immune system with supplements like Vitamen D3 in-between taking the drugs and while taking the drugs. So far the Afinitor has not effected my hair in any way...
So good luck to you...sending some healing light your way.