Hi Phil, I so understand your confusion. We have been on that same roller coaster. I am not a clinician, so I don't want to give medical advice. All I know is that, as an adenocarcinoma of enteric type, Jim's tumor is more like a colon tumor than a bladder cancer, so a colon regimen like FOLFOX is one we considered. We decided to go with Dr. Seifker's regimen because a) she has treated more patients in the past 5 years than anyone else in the country and saw a 30% response rate and b) it is a combination of bladder and colon, since the tumor is like colon at the cellular level, but it arose from the urachus, which gave rise to the bladder in embryonic development.
As for your case, I'm sorry, I don't know much about the kind of tumor you have, nor do I know much about the ifosfamide, but if it is better at treating the sarcomatoid, I would do that regimen.
I'm not sure if you or your brother said, but do you have measurable metastases? Jim has nodules in his lungs but we don't know if they are mets or not. We are doing the chemo as adjuvant therapy and to address a very narrow surgical margin.
Hang in there.