hello,
i read your message and thought i would share my experience w/you. i was 35 when i was diagnosed. i have/had tonsil cancer. it spread to my lymphnode. i was stage 4. the node was removed and found to be cancerous. i did another biopsy where the source was discovered in my right tonsil. i did 3 rounds of cisplatin chemo(the hard stuff). then i did 7 weeks of daily radiation w/a weekly dose of carboplatin(cisplatin's cousin). after that i had about 5 weeks to recover before my neck dissection. i was lucky, they only had to cut one side. i did this at the end of april. i still have numbness in my face and always have dry mouth.
there was another patient that volunteered at the doctors office where i go. he is an 11 year survivor and he had the same thing, only more severe. he developed a physical therapy tape for the shoulder problems. i can ask him about that when i go back to the doctor on July 25th. he is definitely going strong.
as for the dry mouth, i constantly drink water and chew gum. it helps a little. i will let you know about the therapy tapes.