I think the concern here is your unborn baby; they are worried that something will get absorbed through the skin.
My suggestion would be to keep disinfecting wet wipes in the bathroom; make sure you keep wiping the door handle; faucet, toilet lever & seat. I also wouldn't sleep in the same bed. When my hub was fighting oral cancer I could smell the chemo coming out of his pores; I used to regularly spray the shower down with clorox clean up. Get a mattress pad; I think Target has the decent ones cheap- they have a nice one that is water proof but not only plastic so it's not uncomfortable to sleep on & can be washed. I used to change the bedding (not mattress pad- spray with lysol & let it air out) every other day i think. I also changed his towel every 2 days & changed hand towels as much as I could.
I'm sure you're stressed. We knew my hub had oral cancer but didn't know where the primary was. I remember the stress like it was yesterday. What type of cancer do they think your hub has? When do you get the results of the scan?