Hello Lindkaye,
I disagree strongly with the above opinions. You and your husband need a lot of study, and I suggest a good book such as A Primer on Prostate Cancer by Stephen Strum and Donna Pogliano. You also need better test result info from your doctor, what is the actual percentage of free PSA to combined PSA? A low % indicates cancer, a percentage higher than 25% probably is not prostate cancer. Current thinking is that any PSA higher than 2.0 could be cancer, and the only way to know for certain is with a biopsy, and even that can miss at times. They say that prostate cancer is never an emergency, but you should not delay. Catch it while it is merely a brush fire rather than wait until it is out of control like a forest fire. My PSA got to 7.8 before I had surgery, but that was too late, as it had spread. I suggest non-invasive treatment such as hormone therapy if the biopsy shows cancer. Arm yourself with the facts, watchful waiting is not the correct choice.
Jim