Michael, So sorry about your father. I am recovering from tonsil cancer, to be more specific, squameous cell carcinoma with extra nodal involvement. On March 1, I had a neck dissection and a month later began radiation which lasted 6 weeks. During that time, I had 4 sessions of chemo, using carboplatin. My treatments stopped on May 15. Everything happened at Mass General and Mass Eye and Ear in Boston. My case was determined to be a stage 4, because of the size of the lymph node involvement. However, my doctor and I are optimistic that I will survive for at least 10 years! I am 60 years old and generally healthy. My attitude is that I can "kick butt" when it comes to surviving this ordeal.
I am not sure what info you are looking for, however, I can tell you that the only thing that has slowed me down more than I expected came AFTER the treatment was over. The two weeks following were very unpleasant, with nausea, vomiting, very sore throat, generally feeling rotten. I am still using my Gtube for nutrition, and while I can swallow, I can't really eat anything yet without burning and swelling the following day. I am told that healing time varies but by THanksgiving I should be eating turkey! I hope that is true.
I find that the most frustrating and disspiriting thing to me is this period of healing. While the wonderful people at MGH prepared me for everything there, no one ever told me about the long days and weeks and months at home following , when I would want to be "normal" again...with regard to eating, talking, exercising and working. Little by little, my energy is coming back....my throat has days without hurting, but fighting depression during this part has been a huge task.
I hope your father has a great support system, because that is a key factor....
Good luck to him and to you and your family. JL