Hi Cindi,
Thank you for your kind words. My Mother is doing remarkably well really. If you didnt know she had cancer you would not know anything was wrong with her. I am so sorry to hear of your diagnosis. My mother went back to the surgeon on the request of her oncologist to see if the tumors on her liver were able to be removed. He told her that they were too big and to take them out now would only "peck" at the cancer and not do any real good. He advised her to get a second opinion from a Dr. Lauar (I am not sure of the spelling) at I.U. hospital. He is the Dr. that started the study of Gleevec for GIST tumors. She did see him with the same results other than he did suggest that taking a higher dose of gleevec would be about the only hope she would have. It couldnt hurt. So she is now taking 600mg of Gleevec a day. She has found that taking it at night helps with the side effects of nausia, diarreha, headache, fatigue although it does not help with the hair loss.(minor)
I will warn you though when you go to seek a second opinion you may step on the ego of your original oncologist. Hers called her in immediately and informed her that she wasted her time because he(Dr. Lauar)was not able to give her any more information than he had given her already. But I would still encourage you to seek a second and a third opinion untill you are satisfied that you are doing all that can be done. Please keep me informed of your condition. I will also keep you and your family in my prayers.
Kathy