My husband's colon cancer progressed to stage 4 in 2007, and he is alive and well today. His original colorectal cancer was diagnosed in 2006 and staged at 2-3, but within the year it showed up in his blood and 3 other places. He took avastan, eloxatin, and cu-10, I believe. He was told that he might be able to survive as long as 2 years. Every 3 months he had a full-body PET to chart the progress. He became very ill, could only whisper, and had a heart attack and a stent placed. But by the end of the year, the cancers had disappeared! He now has a PET every 6 months.
One of the nurses told us about an herbal tea called Flor-Essence. We asked the oncologist if it was OK to drink it. The oncologist told us that it would not hurt him but might not help him for no reliable studies have been done on it. Since we were desperate, my husband drank 2oz. of the tea 3 Xs per day. He liked the taste. I do not know if the tea helped him or not, but he still drinks it 2 Xs a day. We buy the loose leaves at a health food store and brew a week's supply at a time.
Prayer and the support of family and friends helped tremendously. My husband rarely missed church even though we had to help him into a back pew lined with pillows. We slipped in late and left shortly before the end of the service. He wore a surgical mask and latex gloves because his immune system was so low, but he insisted on going to church. I believe his steadfast faith did more than anything to heal him. He is a marvel to all in our church.
He also attended support groups and gained courage and strength through those sessions. He wrote his obituary and a testimonial on his faith in God to be shared if the Lord decided that it was his time to die. Now that he is healed, he is a certified ostomate helping other men with pouches learn to deal with their ostomies. He writes funny (but informative) poems about his ostomy and shares those with others, too.
I tell you this, for that could be your husband's story, too. I strongly believe in miracles, for I have seen one!