It's scary to see all the stories, I stayed away from them when I was sick but I know my sister didn't and it made her nuts. You have to just believe he can get through this, that there isn't another option.
No I did not need the bmt, and I thank God! If he doesn't need it then why would he want to have it? I can't speak for anyone else but they told me I didn't need it so I didn't push for it. They told me if I get the AML back I probably would need the bmt then, but I don't plan on getting it back. I hope your dad stays strong and never gives up.
Hang in there,
Kat