Nikel-I have read many responses on various issues over the years, but have never felt a need to join and respond until now. I am 32 and the mom of a 3 and 5 year old. I was just diagnosed with melanoma in situ (at least) on 4/28/08. My derm. did a shave biopsy and based on the thinness of less than 1mm, the pathologist could only diagnose in situ. However, he wrote "melanoma in situ at least, malignant cells transcend the base of the biopsy." So I won't really know my stage until the wide biopsy is done. Unlucky for me it is on my cheek, right in the middle of my face. So I will be reminded of this disease, however it turns out, every day I look in the mirror. I am still looking for a plastic surgeon I really like, but I have scheduled surgery for this friday may 9th. I am meeting another on wednesday and am praying he can fit me in for surgery soon. My original diagnosis 3 years ago was a ruptured blemish. Boy was he wrong! I really want it out now and can't wait the month some are saying it will take just for me to get a consultation. It's kind of sad people are getting face lifts and boob jobs while I have cancer growing on my face. I too am afraid my body is full of cancer. I've had a bit of a rough year medically and am so afraid this is the link causing so many symptoms in me. I've had tingling in my hands and feet and a cough that lasted 6 months. It finally went away a month or so ago, but I can't stop thinking about it. I also have many many moles and wish all could be removed. My dr. of course said that is not possible and not necessary. If it truly is in situ, he recommends only baseline bloodwork, a chest xray and 3 month skin checks. After reading previous posts, I would like to have more done.
Nikel-what type of biopsy did you have done for your initial diagnosis? Anyone else? Have you ever heard of an initial diagnosis of in situ come back stage IV. I am so scared and keep thinking of my kids and how much I want to see them grow up. I'm trying to think positive, but the tears keep coming. Sorry so long, but I'd love any responses.