On Oct 02, 2011 1:21 AM sckatt wrote:
what is the next step while you are waiting in between treatments to see if they have done any good. my husband was diagnosed with stomach cancer in may. has been in chemo twice, and then radiaion. now just waiting during radiation recovery and then a scan next week to see what goes next. what do you do besides being two people, one who has to act normally, me and go to work everyday, and the other, him, who is in the trap of not knowing what's next, how does life go around?
sckatt,
I would think for your husband's case, it would be surgery next (6 weeks rest after chemo/radiation).
Believe it or not, life goes on...We have been battling since Feb. 2008 and at that time, our daughter was only 15 months old. Next month, she's turning 5!
The diagnoses this April was his 3rd. Each time is pretty much the same.
6 weeks of chemo/radiation then rest for 6 weeks then surgery, then rest for another 6 weeks then about 3 months worth of heavy chemo. It has been a long process/journey for our family.
Our date line for this 3rd sugery was:
8/4 surgery
8/13 released from Hopital
8/22 post op check-up (told him at that time, he started gagging and regurgitation around 8/20)
8/29 gagged/regurgitate so much, caused dehydration, went to ER. Stayed for a week. Doc. did Endoscopy, basically we were told anatomically, everything looks fine. So, it's just part of the healing process for him that he's gagging...try different things when you get home. So, we did. We tried for 2 weeks...
9/16 re-admitted to ER due to dehydration again, this time, doc. said we're not going to release you till we know exactly what's wrong with you. (LOST OVER 40lbs).
9/20 got PICC line put in, now on TPN (IV nutrient to stablize his weight). That weeks, they wanted him to do a nuclear test (which is eat eggs/toast) and they follow through study him. But after his 3rd sip, he started gagging and then they had to stop the test. He spent the rest of the day gagging/regurgitating.
9/27 they put in a stent hoping for good result...he woke up from the procedured and severly gagged and regurgitated for 2 straight days!
10/3 (TODAY), the plan is to remove the stent, as obviously it's not working.
The hospital is about 1 hour and 30 mins away. I drive to see him once during the week and with our daughter once during the weekend. As you said, one have to continue and work! It's sad but it's reality.