Hey Rick,
I remember that you asked a question very similar to this last year. Of course, the best gift of all is that she still has you by her side a year later!
I don't remember what I said last year but I think you should write her a letter telling her exactly how you feel about her and all she has done for you and your children. Tell her how much you love her and how much more she means to you after all your years together. Give her the letter and one red rose. Believe me, it will mean far more to her than all her jewelry ever could.
I still at times get out the letters and notes Ray wrote to me on different occasions. Sometimes I laugh and other times I cry, but the words he wrote especially for me are so special that they never fail to move me.
Give it some thought. Happy anniversary, Rick!