Looking for Glioblastoma Multiforme Stage 4 survivors (brain cancer)

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RE: Looking For Glioblastoma Survivors Stage 4

by levigor on Tue Oct 09, 2007 12:00 AM

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On 4/16/2007 Meglr11983 wrote:

Hi everyone,

This is the first time i've reached out for information, but i figured i would give it a try.  On April 13 (Friday the 13th), my father was diagnosed with a Glioblastoma Multiforme in his left temporal lobe and partly in his thalamus. He is 50 years old.  It is an inch and a half in diameter and the doctor stated that becuase it is so deep in his brain, they would cause more damage trying to remove the tumor than leaving it in there.  He is going to start radiation and chemo in the next week and  half or so.  He will be taking the pill form of chemo. He had no visible symptoms - he would slur a word every once in awhile and forget how to do things.  In the three weeks since he approached his doctor, his speech has gotten worse and he has weakness in his right side.

I guess what i'm looking for is support, information on how your families made it through this.  I know we have to stay positive and keep hoping for the best.  It seems that everyone on this board has had a craniotomy, which is impossible for my father.  I would like to speak to someone who who could not have surgery and what they went through.  Even some coping mechanisms would be great. 

 My mother, his caregiver, has been great with him.  When she is not with him though, she's in shambles.  Understandably.  She has not been on her own her entire life and has been completely dependent on my father for the almost 30 years they have been married.  She's having a very hard time with this, and i don't know what kind of support to give her.  I can not help her, as i am 2 states away and we have never gotten along.  I know i should stop being selfish and get along with her, but it takes two to tango.  I am worried about her as a caregiver for her health and sanity.  She has high blood pressure, is a worrier and flips out about the smallest things even in times of low stress.  What kind of advice can i give her, or provide for her in this very difficult situation? 

My father is n the care of the Chief Neurosurgeon at Dartmough Medical Center, Dr. Roberts and his oncologist is Dr. FAdul - a world renowned neurooncologist.

I'm just looking for hope at this point.  Some sort of positive note.  He has 2 daughters and 2 beautiful grandaughters and was finally happy and peaceful with his life.  Please, please help.  I am desperate at this point.

you can email me at 

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 if you would like.

 Thanks,

 Megan


 

hey....
new here...english isnt the best but i will try anyway......(from israel).
well'my father (54 years old)has the same thing megan's father has,on november 2006 it was discoverd;also cant be surgend-it is to deep,my dady lost his ability to speek,then his memory,then apilepsia attack(when muslce is beeing shaking with no ability to stop)i think 8 or 9 times.reading ability and his ability to see goten worse,the last days he cant understand what we talking-or very little words'cant even seat(the tumer sit in the left side of brain-so all the right side of the body dosent functions)-avcorse bathing its imposible-beacuse he cant even stand,all we do all day is moving him to eat and bath and bad and bathroom(if he rember to single us he needs to-not always)
to watch this is very hard-the doctors told us
from the beging-he has between 2 monthes to one year,11 monthse after it-i am saying(with tears)thet my dad better of in heaven...to see him suffer is .......teribble,he probbly doesnt have many days to stay with us.....
what a monster disease
if someone wants to write me-i would be happy,
alittle advice..........never(!) stop fighting-in afew years we should
beat this thing-for next jeneration

 

 

RE: Looking For Glioblastoma Survivors Stage 4

by winningteam2 on Tue Oct 09, 2007 12:00 AM

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Over a year ago I posted a note about my husband, 59 yrs old, approaching his 4th anniversary with a left temporal GBM.  He is still alive, but I want to warn about a  common treatment that nearly did him in this summer. You can die from NON-TUMOR and treatment related problems.

May 8th he had right side facial weakness and CT showed a blood clot near the tumor cavity but no tumor by MRI, or PET scan. Rather than surgically remove the clot, they treated with high dose dexamethasone to reduce cerebral edema. It initially worked well. Within 72 hours his facial movement was nearly symmetrical, he could drink, swallow, walk,etc. and I drove him home from the hospital.  His speech was the main impairment.

 At about 12 days from the  start of steroids (24 mg of Decadron/day), my husband mysteriously started to become weaker, then so much so, I was calling his neurologist several times a week. He did not think it was a steroid problem, but said I could decrease his dose a day ahead of scheduled two week decrease. On May 28, I took him to the emergency room, got  another CT, thinking he had another bleed.  All clear, so they doubled his seizure meds trileptal and depakote. This made him unresponsive. I went back to the old dose after calling the neuro-oncologist again. I took him to his internist, the neurosurgeon who prescribed the steroids ( and was his attending physician) and his neuro radiologist ( whose opinion I value) over the next three weeks.

The advice:

 Internist- his sodium is a bit low, limit water and drink gatorade. Repeat the sodium level in a week. I don't know why he looks so weak.

Neurosurgeon- I am sure his tumor is back, perhaps hiding behind the nicely resolving clot.  We can consider gamma knife later sometime. He is clearly not doing well, I could do a VP shunt since his ventricles look a little big on the new scan." You can try to reduce the steroids if you want. If he can tolerate it. My nurse will give you a prescription. I'll see him again in 3 months for an MRI".

The neuroloncologist- The  new MRI shows no tumor, you look terrible, but this is NOT a steroid problem. You could try a ventriculoperitoneal (VP shunt, if the neurosurgeon suggests it). Keep up the anticonvulsants.

Neuroradiologist- I'm sorry you are getting so much conflicting advice. Just do aggressive physical therapy and wait a month. Don't do the VP shunt. I don't think the ventricles have changed.

Long story made short. I called the ambulance a week later when he could not stand up at all. He was admitted to the hospital's ICU with pneumonia, and atrial flutter and was left on steroids for another 6 weeks.  After 51 days in the hospital ( and placement of a PEG for tube feeding, cardioversion, insulin for steroid induced diabetes, etc), he was transferred to an acute rehab center with the diagnosis of STEROID INDUCED MYOPATHY.  It took a lot of fighting to get them to admit the diagnosis. They want so badly to prove the odds that his tumor recurred. 

After 5 weeks , he can now hold his head up, sit without support, and use both hands to  eat a regular diet. I am hoping for a full recovery to our pre-clot state. We are at 4 years and 8 months since his surgery. He was and is living on prayer.

 This is a potentially deadly medicine used on a survivor.  We are not out of the woods yet.  We also stopped anticonvulsants since he had hit rock bottom in the quality of life category. When he was accidentally taken off his Depakote in the hospital (yes, by accident), he became a new man, totally alert  and communicative.

I am interested in other late effects, complications, signs of recurrence, etc. especially in long term survivors. Thanks

RE: Looking For Glioblastoma Survivors Stage 4

by TARAC on Sat Oct 27, 2007 12:00 AM

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Hello to all, I am new to this website, but all of your stories give me hope that someone can be strong and survive this "Monster Disease" and that the family can be ok and by God's grace live through the ups and downs.

My father was diagnosed on September 17th of this year with a stage IV Glioblastoma.  He was presenting with headaches, visual problems, dangerous and erratic driving practices and dyslexic tendancies.  He got progressively worse, until my mom took him to the ER.

On September 24th, he had a tumor resection that did not get all of it, but did get the "core".  I saw the tumor before surgery, and it was butterfly shaped.   The doctor at Emory University Hospital told us that there were pieces left in the brain and that he would require chemo and radiation together.  The chemo is oral. He has to take 3 pills for 60 days.

 He is 70 years old and in excellent health to the point that his oncologist requested that he be allowed to take Temodar (sp?) in conjunction with his radiation.   His tumor was to quote the doctor "huge".  He is recovering very well from his surgery and awaits the beginning of his treatments.

My friend in Savannah told me that she only knew of 2 people that had this to live less than one year.  One was 35 and one was probably in his 40's.  I would like to know if any of you have heard of any long term survivors or anybody who has "beaten" this horror, or has gone into long term remission. 

It is so good to know that there are others who are out there too, and that I am not alone.  But my wish and my prayer for all of us, patients and loved ones alike, is that our Lord will take this horror out of this world and let us live cancer free.  Prayers and Hope to you all, TARA C

RE: Hello

by Hope4Hoppy on Wed Nov 07, 2007 12:00 AM

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Hi,

Where was his tumor located? My dad;s is inoperable, and we don't really have anywhere to go for a second opinon, who is he seeing at UCLA- anyone you would recommend? Thanks Jordyn

RE: Looking for Glioblastoma Multiforme Stage 4 survivors (brain cancer)

by Hope4Hoppy on Wed Nov 07, 2007 12:00 AM

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Hi,
My dad was just diagnosised in July of 2007, his is inoperable as well. He had whole head radiation which he tolerated well. He is just starting chemo (he was on it before, but his blood count dropped-so he was intially taken off). The good news is that after the radiation his tumours have not grown. He is staying very positive,and has made some life changes *diet/excerise. If you have any questions, I would be happy to answer them if I can,

Best of luck-Keep your spirits up!

Jordyn

RE: Husband Has Gbm 4

by Jenna_B on Sat Nov 17, 2007 12:00 AM

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Hello,

My father was diagnosed with GBM4 brain tumour in October 2006.  He has had surgery, first to remove the pressure and then to remove the tumour.

He then started radiotherapy in jan/feb 07.  I got married in july 07 and my sister was pregnant and her baby due in october 07.  Unfortunately my father was told he needed more surgery to remove the tumour again in end of september 07 and had that done.   My sisters baby was born a couple of day later making the situation a little more pleasant and taking our minds off it all.  Very good timing!

It's now November 2007 and my father is having to go back for more tests whilst continuing with the on-going chemotherapy treatment which he is having.

Our doctrs have no hope and are saying that they can only prolong his lifem however we are born again christians and believe that God is on our side.

I believe in divine healing and wanted to share this with you.  You said at the end of your last message 'praise God'  and I just wanted to agree.

 

xJennax

 

RE: Looking for Glioblastoma Multiforme Stage 4 survivors (brain cancer)

by Jenna_B on Sat Nov 17, 2007 12:00 AM

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Oh my goodness, you are so right, prayer is the only way!!
You should of course try to help your diet - dr budwig is very recomended wit gbm 4 tumours.

God wil heal thought, miracles HAVE happened in the past.
I wish you all well and feel for you all,

Love Jenna xx

RE: Looking for Glioblastoma Multiforme Stage 4 survivors (brain cancer)

by Sergioeduardo on Fri Nov 30, 2007 12:00 AM

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Please if you hear anything share with me. My sister 21 y was diagnosted with this cancer 4 months ago and she's not doing well.

Thanks

Eduardo

RE: Looking for Glioblastoma Multiforme Stage 4 survivors (brain cancer)

by toughpr on Fri Nov 30, 2007 12:00 AM

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On 11/30/2007 Sergioeduardo wrote:

Please if you hear anything share with me. My sister 21 y was diagnosted with this cancer 4 months ago and she's not doing well.

Thanks

Eduardo


Eduardo,

I'm so sorry to hear that yoru sister has this awful illness.  God Bless her and give you all strength and courage.  The Journey with this illness is not an easy one, especailly for those of you who will be taking care of your sister and watching her go through the stages of this illness.   I will pray for your family.  God Bless you and  your sister and give you strength and courage, May the Virgin Mary give your mother courage and help her through this difficult time.

If you would like to read more about this illness you can go to the hospice website....  www.brainhospice.com   read through it, but please, have faith and strength.  Never loose hope and always keep faith!!!

Mari

RE: Looking for Glioblastoma Multiforme Stage 4 survivors (brain cancer)

by cigdem on Tue Dec 04, 2007 12:00 AM

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Hi,

I do not know what to say and I presume I can not write all the story we had since 10th November.. Shortly 9th November after work I had a splendid time with my husband had a night out for dinner etc.We had many plans for the w/end and Saturday 7:00 am he had  an epileptic shock (first time in his life ) and we found out there are some tumors in his brain.. And he had a severe bleeding in his brain 27th November , urgently had an brain surgery the other day another bleeding ..By that time we had the biopsy result that he had GBM .. He had the second brain surgery , bleeding is stopped but he's sleeping since 27th 15:00 pm (although we had a phone conversation at 13:30pm and he was perfectly alright! ). Until 2nd of December he was responding  very much so to the pain stimulants..but it was quite lessen since sunday and He has got tempereture too.. It is just like a joke .. Very hard to believe in all these things happening to him. He was such a person scaring from the cancer a lot . He had got very (even I was finding too much & exagrated ) healthy living. 0 smoking , 0 drinking, olive oil only, 0 fried food, fast food etc etc.. And here it is he has got GBM ..must be a joke . I do not know what to think , I do not know how to help him . I am talking with him , give him some massage but really difficult to see him like that.  7th December our wedding anniversary. You know everytime we say that there is no past , no future we have got only the very moment in our hand .. I do understand it deeply now. We do not know what will be happen after a second later. I do not lost my hope . I know everything , good or bad , is for us in this world. I know everything has got a reason . I respect God , I respect nature but even though it is  so difficult to see him over there .. I hope I hope he does not feeling any pain.  

Wish you all love and power,

Cigdem

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