Maria,
I have been off the board for several weeks and just checked in. I am so sorry to hear about Joe...guess I need to do some catch up reading because I thought things had been going fairly well for him. It can get ugly very fast if it rears it's head again. Pat was doing well and making progress, then it ramped up so fast it was hard to believe. My son and I went to India with Pat's ashes, and offered them to the Ganges in Haridwar, which is considered a very sacred place. I miss him so much, as I know you must be missing Joe. Sending prayers for peace. Please keep in touch if you need anything.