Violet -
My daughter is about to start treatment for Stage II Hodgkins Lymphoma. In January she had a lump come up on her neck as well. Sounds like the same place as you - left side. In March her doctor ordered a CT Scan immediately and they found enlarged lymph nodes in her neck and chest. She has since had a biopsy that confirmed her cancer. She is finishing up her freshman year in college and will start her first chemo treatment next Thursday. Noone wants to hear that they have cancer, but we have been told by many people that this is the cancer that you want to have because it is curable.
This is all new to us as well. Email me if you want any advice or need someone to talk to. Even though I am just her support and her mother, I feel like I too will be going through all of the treatments with her to make her better - that is my job as her mother. To do whatever it takes to make her well.
The one thing that we did do that someone gave us advice on was to get a second opinion. We loved both doctors and they had the same diagnosis and treatment plan for her, however our 2nd opinion doctor really talked with her in detail about her and her cancer. Not about how he will treat the disease and how he has treated other patients, but really focused on my daughter. This in itself gave my daughter a lot of comfort, so did her father and I.
Prayers are with you and hoping that your biopsy comes back negative.