My wife was diagnosed at Stage 3 with possible lymp node involvement. A scope found that the tumor had also invaded her trachea, which made the tumor inoperable.
With surgery out of the equation, we were quite scared. I will always remember talking to the radiational oncologist about this fear. He smiled and said don't worry, I do this all the time and will do all I can to cure you. And he did. We bumped up the radiation treatment to the maximum of 39 treatments, modified the chemo treatment and here we are over 4.5 years post treatment with no evidence of disease.
I will add that if we had not been at the great hospital we were at, I do not think we would have had the same options. Where you get your treatment is critical. If you are not at a MAJOR cancer center, get to one.
Good luck,
Kevin