Hi chichi,.
I am 57 yrs old and was diag with stage 4 lung ca in dec. I too was a non smoker, had my upper left lobe removed, and am on tarceva daily. I get ct scans every 4 mos to check for growth.
Being on tarceva has not been easy for me. I do know that it is different for everyone. I work fulltime, so am totally exhausted everyday. I started with a terrible rash, even in my scalp, but after 3 mos that subsided. Intestinal cramping, diarrhea is a part it. Imodium is your best friend.
I didn't lose my hair, but it has become thinner, harder to work with, and a totally different texture.
Having trouble breathing is an everyday thing for me, and i attribute that you the lung surgery.
I am glad to be on the tarceva, and not have to go thru chemo. I don't know what my outcome will be, but was told we live longer with lung ca than before. I was glad to hear that!
Getting this was a total shock. No one in my family had lung ca. I find that my husband does alot of the chores since he is retired, and i am just too tired.
I am not writing this to discourage you on taking tarceva, only to help in knowing what you might expect and not to be frightened by what is happening. It helped me alot to read other people's experiences and know that what i was feeling someone else did.
I wish you the best of luck. I will keep you in my prayers. Stay on the chat line and let us know how you are doing. Leslie