This is a fast acting silent agressive disease. You said that you couldn't get help here, where is that? Sloan Kettering, Johns Hopkins, University of Chicago, MD Anderson, Mayo are all top knotch programs. I'm sure that there are more. I've got stage 4 and I'm at Universtiy of Chicago.
Don't take NO for an answer push hard and fight. It is worth every minute of the battle.
Dr Hedy Kindler U of C 773 702-4400 is working with three or four other regional hospitals that offering the same clinical trial as I am on.
Call them and maybe tthey can direct you to a more local hospital with same attack plan. God Bless You, your husband and good luck in your battle.
Dave B.