Does anyone else out there find it hard to get the doctor's to tell you what you should do? I find this to be a very trying time and all they keep doing is giving me options. I don't want options I want to know what I have to do to live. They should list all your options in writing from best chance to least, that would make things easier, and I say in writing because I am finding out that I can't remeber anything and I have not even started chemo yet, just diagnosed 6/7/12 that date that will forever haunt me.