Hi. My husband is unmethylated, too. I understand your frustration. The doctors caring for my husband believe the MGMT tests are notoriously unreliable. Given that the lifespan is cut so short if one refuses radiation and Temodar, we opted to have the radiation and 8 rounds of Temodar. For us, the situation was dire. My husband would have been dead in a couple of weeks had we not done that. The docs were real upfront with us and said they would be giving us time, not a cure, but that with time comes hope for a cure. From my understanding, even the unmethylated patients do see improvement with radiation and Temodar - just not as much as methylated patients do.
My husband did very well over the last year. In April, there was a small "something" that they wanted to watch. In May, it was dubious whether it had grown or not. Last week, they found it had grown substantially. Next Wednesday we will hear what the other suggestions are. For us, it is really a dilemma because his the tumor is very close to the brain stem, so surgery is quite risky. And, depending on the location, surgery without following with radiation can be counterproductive because surgery carries risks, recovery time is involved, and GBM cells reproduce immediately.
I will offer, if there is ANY silver lining, they say that no one can tell the difference between tumor regrowth and necrosis without surgery. If it is necrosis, it could plateau. I'll try to add a post after next Wednesday's visit. If I had it to do over again, I would still do the radiation and Temodar. The Temodar had mild side effects that were quite tolerable until late in the game.
In reading countless posts here, I am convinced that one must be clear with the doctors of your wants. For us, my husband wants quality time, not quantity time. Having them offer a treatment that would increase lifespan without cognitive abilities, or with excessive side effects, is not my husband's wish.
My best to you.