Hi Nancy, good knowing you! Well, sort of, so far if you know what I mean, lol I dont understand when you say you refused chemo from day 1, isn't what you are taking classed as some sort of chemo? You seem very much like me, I too have refused chemo and also have COPD, lucky, arent we, lol. I have hadd all the 'tests' done too and see my haemo evry 3 months, due to see her next week, sometimes wonder why I even go if I am not going to do anything else about it!!!!!!!! Morbid Curiosity maybe lol I have lesions on my arms from skeletal survey and degeneration in lower spine. Where is your pain worse? In your ribs, I have found that this is my problem that has developed since last bloods, thought at first it was just a sore back but now guessing this is the beginning! Don't ya just hate having something you cannot control with an antibiotic? I am 62 and I live in Melbourne, australia. It really freaks me out all the side effects of the chemo people had, if it was going to get rid of it, maybe worth a try but as its supposedly incurable why spend the last years of your life throwing up with no hair? Maybe thats just me!! Again, thanks for adding me as a friend, nice to talk to somebody first hand that is going through the same stuff. Have a great day!