sorry this is happening
my sister had, had the whipple surgery in 2010, reacurrance in her original surgical site, veins and liver.
She did have 5 sessions of radiation which helped with the pain and she was only just a bit more tiered, she had to wait on swelling to go down before starting chemo.....they wouldnt give her it, she was still able to see to the kids, go shopping, her pain was under control, she was loosing alot of weight, but living
they had said that if she had started chemo she wouldnt have got back out of bed
BUT please if you can get a second and third opinion, we are in the UK were it isnt a option
she was only 43 xxxx