Thank you for responding. I sent her a care package this past Monday and put lots of comfort type things in it, like pj's, slippers, homemade cookie bars, hard candy, magazine, cd and journal. I figured it was more personal than sending flowers, and since I couldn't make the trip up there any time soon, I wanted to send something kinda special. I figure I might also send her a card once a week to let her know I'm thinking of her too. I'll have to see what kind of books she likes, that's a good idea too. Thanks for your help.