Thank you everyone for your comments and kind wishes.
RosieGrace - I am sorry to hear about your illness too :( don't give up hope... my friends mother has breast cancer and she has been having chemo the last few months to shrink the tumor so they can operate and its worked! she is scheduled for operation start of feb. I am now around 6 weeks post op and recovered really well. I actually went back to work 3 weeks after my op :) (restricted activities though). I started my chemo yesterday. My oncologist has put me on Xeloda (capecitabine) to begin with. I am greatful it is in tablet form and not IV. Although, I think his decision to put me onto this treatment was purely for the fact it was Xmas time and instead of me spending it in and out of hospital, this seemed like an easier option. I haven't had any side effects yet (touch wood), although I did here it can take days/weeks to kick in. I go back to my oncologist 3rd Jan after my 3 week cycle. He spoke about maybe adding Avastin to my treatment then further down the track adding 5FU. All my doctors said that given my age my oncologist will attack aggressively with my chemo but in fact he has done the opposite. He has said why do that if the lighter treatments work. I will discuss with him when I go back in a few weeks, cause I honestly want the strongest that gives it less chance of it coming back in future (providing they can even shrink the cancer in my liver). I know its scary but you just have to stay strong and positive. I now have overcome the fear of where my future lies. Im determined to beat this and thats the mind frame you need to put yourself into as well. I admit I still have my moments where I get down about it all though but I have so much support around me that gets me through it :) I wish you all the best when you start chemo tomorrow. Hopefully it won't knock you about too much. Keep me posted!! :)
Whippleschmiple - As far as I know they were going to test my tumor to see if it was genetic but I haven't heard anything about that. I only discovered after I was diagnosed that bowel cancer runs on my dads side of the family. I will search for Dr Servan-schreiber about this diet. I have heard that 80% of the recovery is through your diet and that exercise plays a big part of it as well. I have been doing a fair bit of research into 'cancer causing' foods..its amazing what I have read so far! I will be limiting myself to certains foods, but at the same time I need a balanced diet. I have heard of the folfox treatment. I read some american doctors forum about how he thinks the folfox is the best treatment by far in showing the best results. All the best!!
Sending best wishes to everyone that is battling this terrible illness. Merry Xmas all!! :)