So sorry to hear the news. Please be aggressive in fighting this.
Hopefully the chemo and rad will knock it back and rid you of
cancer. Rectal cancer can be very aggressive. I know, I'm 42 -
started with a stage III diagnosis last December - went through
chemo/rad and surgery only to find mets to my liver a month
after surgery. I'm still very hopeful and feel I have options.
Stay positive and active and be aggressive in your treatments.
Also, don't fear the colostomy. I am very active and was worried
about losing that function. Now it is the least of my problems.
Check out
http://www.uoaa.org/forum/index.php for info and
support on colostomies. It's a great bunch of people.
Best of luck to you