I know it is so very terribly hard to go on with your every day life after being diagnosed with lung cancer. I am so sorry you have to travel this road. I was so scared, so very terrified at what I didn't know. The un-known is what drives us crazy. So, I talked with my doctor and she prescribed xanax for me. I couldn't help but think of it all the time, and I wasn't getting any good sleep, or just resting my mind. Xanax is an anti-anxiety drug that can be used as needed, you don't have to take it unless you feel the need. It helped me so very, very much. Stress is bad on cancer, so anything that helps rid us of that stress is a good thing.
Do you know what questions to ask yet? I kept a paper and pencil near by to write down whatever questions popped into my mind at the time. Then I took my list to the doctors. I found a lot of times, I had questions that when answered, I really was able to calm down and realize they were there for me fighting as hard as I was fighting.
So, I was a stage 3A, had an upper right lobectomy, did chemo but no radiation. I am surprised to this day that my oxygen saturation is 99-100% !!!!!! For me, the thing that hurt me the most was where the drain tube was. That spot still hurts to this day sometimes. If you click on my name, it will take you to my page, and you can read my story. It took me months to get my diagnosis. Unfortunately lung cancer has no symptoms so it is usually found at a later stage, unless it's found while doctors are searching for something else.
Another thing I want to tell you is that the statistics you are reading were compiled from data taken from the past 10-15 years. You wouldn't believe the new drugs, and treatments that have come out just since my diagnosis in 2010. We are the new statistics!! And, I have been cancer free since July 12, 2010, when my upper lung was removed. That is one heck of a good result. I am NED or No Evidence of Desease.
I don't know if any of this helps you. But I do want to encourage you to ask your doctor about some sort of anti-anxiety. It helps us so much under these conditions. I also want you to keep positive, believe in possitive results, and keep on keepin' on. If I can help you in any way, let me know.
Once you have a plan of action, it will be so much easier on you. For me, knowledge was power. Believe it or not, I kept my sense of humor, and my husband and I believe that helped us a whole lot. lol Anything that distracts us from ourselves is welcome as far as I'm concerned. Heck, I used to just sit in front of the computer on UTube watching funny videos just so I could laugh. Laughter is healing, and I sure enjoyed my days that I did that.
Best wishes to you and yours, and I'll keep you in my prayers, Missy
Byrd