Hi kadydat,
Just want to say, sending prayers for your sister. I only had 18 (6 three cycle) treatments of gemzar, so I can not speak of your sister's treatment. My oncolognist says radiation has shown to have no effect on PanCan, & was not given any.
Chemo, I think is harsh, But it is necessary. I too wanted to quit.......... my family, my reason for living, made me see it thru. That will be 18 months ago March 1st that I finished chemo. (currently in remission or NED) Everyone is different, feel different, many things come into thought...... what stage is it?, what side effects? , age? quality of life?? Faith? I have good days & not so good days still. I hope your sister takes her time & really thinks things out before making a huge life decision, I will pray for her. God Bless you both. Hugs, Candy