Veronica
DO NOT GIVE UP HOPE.... my sister is on her 3rd reoccurrence in 4 years and between surgery and chemo and now, a new experimental drug, her cancer is not growing or moving and even upon the last PET scan in September, shrinking. She too went to Sloan and was told to go home. She is now treated by a Dr. at COlumbia Presbyterian in NYC and on 119 days of an experimental pill that is shrinking her tumor with hardly ZERO side effects. Please go see the MANY blog entries on this subject. To find these, go under cancers and choose "other", in the search field, put in urachal adenocarcinoma and you will see alot of blog entries. Please go to page 3 of the entries and find the entries ending in #1991. Click on those. You will see that you have come upon a blog with 47 entries on the subject including my sister Jane's doctor's name and #. Please call directly or have your doctor call him. Dr. Dan P. -- gentiuroligical oncology at Columbia Presbyterian NYC.
Good Luck, keep the faith and keep up on this site, there is alot of good info about this type of cancer.
Hugs to your husband for being such a trooper
Melissa