Afraid

Hi,

I didn't understand what Melanoma was until I fully researched the symptoms and warning signs.

I now realise that I have at least three moles that are abnormal on my stomach and I have scheduled my appointment with a Dermatologist for Friday this week. I am terrified.

not only do I have multiple instances of melanoma, but I also have probably been walking around with these moles for several years. Despite the fact that I feel fine and have no secondary symptoms, I can't sleep, I can't think straight and I am almost paralysed by fear.

 I have a four month old son who is the most amazing addition to my life - the thought of not seeing him grow up, and not being able to grow old with my wife is eating me up inside.

I see many success and survivor stories and I hope that I can be one of them....

best of luck to all of us.

Stuart 

Stuart, My brother in law had a very serious bout with malignent melanoma five years ago, he went to the best doc he could find at a huge hospital 60 miles away, this doctor was agressive, did surgery and he did one year of immune system therapy. (rough stuff)

He gets checked every three months and is doing well. Don't think the worst yet..get to the doc, get it checked , be agressive and most important, hug your wife and that baby, none of us knows what the next day will bring, I will put you in my prayers...

Blessings

Stuart,

I Just posted some things I did and helped me get rid of cancer.

I am not selling anything.And all this just happened to or for me recently.(last 2 weeks ) so I am a bit excited about it!

One things you may want to try is to get some graviola from a local health food store or on the net and put it directly on it. It would be a cheap way to see if it does anything .

Look at my other post , I gave a full exp of what I did or feel free to email and if you like I'll give you my number to call.

Dennis

Thanks for your reply.

I jjust can't stand the thought of leaving my family behind. I always thought that I would be around forever to be there and support them.

What stage of Melanoma was your brother at? I can't imagine being less that a Stage II at best with every chance of being Stage III - given the amount of time that this has been going on.

I am glad that he is OK - every success story is another way for me to take hope.

regards

Stuart 

I  am in the same boat as you right now.  I had a biopsy on 1/4 and am still waiting for the results.  The mole had been on my abdomen for at least 4 years, so Im terrified that if it is melanoma, it will have to be in the late stages.  Im absolutely terrified and its all I can think about.  I called to see if the  results were in today, and they confirmed, it will probably be another 7 days =-(  The nurse said she is fairly confident it is benign, but there really is no way of knowing until the results come back.